The difference between being in control and needing control when you are working from your strengths and passionate about what you do, you become a natural leader and role model. You are in control of yourself and adaptable to change. On the other hand, needing control is limiting.
Parents experience this to the extreme while raising children. There comes a phase when it’s time to give up control and have the children do for themselves that which was once the parent’s job to do. It’s not particularly comfortable to watch someone do a poor job as part of the process of learning how to do something well. But, allowing them to do it themselves is a way that children are empowered to learn and grow. Plus, the parent is freed from doing day-to-day tasks that the child can manage.
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